Marriage Mantras

Marriage Mantras

Choosing a life partner is a tricky business and could be stressful with imaginary fears and anxieties
The following aspects which I like to describe as the Marriage Mantras may be kept in mind. Yes, I realise this is not all but just the basic and perhaps the most important ones
a)Do not go into a marriage with great expectations; you may be disappointed; on the other hand, have minimal expectations, you may be pleasantly surprised
b)Know that Marriage is not all sex and just physical relationship; Sex is just one of the factors in a marriage, may be an important one at that, but bound to wear off more or less gradually depending upon the partners over a period of time; Do not worry, there are indeed other factors cementing a marriage, you will discover
c)Tolerance is the key to a marriage, though not a solution in itself; solution may lie in fixing issues not just once but continuously and consistently
d)Be alert to the need to fix issues then and there, expeditiously, if necessary with the help of a Professional Counselor

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